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Utah Domestic Violence Council

Children and Domestic Violence

For Kids | For Teens | For Parents | For Professionals

Children are harmed by domestic violence even if they never see it and are never physically abused themselves.

Even hearing yelling, name-calling, slapping and hitting sounds is abuse and it has a profound effect on children.

The following resources are tools for kids, teens, parents and professionals. We hope you find the links useful.

Kids:

Safety Champion Coloring Book

Child Safety Plan

Child Safety Plan Spanish

A Child’s Safety Plan for Visitation

A Child’s Safety Plan for Visitation Spanish

 

Books:

Agassi, M. Hands are Not for Hitting. Free Spirit Publishing, 2000.

Curtis, J. Today I feel Silly & Other Moods That Make My Day. Harper Collins, 1998.

Curtis, J. I’m Gonna Like Me. Harper Collins, 2000.

Schor, H. A Place for Starr, A Story of Hope for Children Experiencing Family Violence. KidsRights, 2002.

Verdick, Elizabeth. Words are Not for Hurting. Free Spirit Publishing, 2004.

 

Films:

Tulip Doesn’t Feel Safe. Kinetic Inc., 1993.

 

Teens:

Dating Violence Quiz

Teen Power and Control Wheel

Teen Safety Questionnaire

Teen Safety Questionnaire Spanish

Teen Safety Plan

Jealousy Self Quiz

Jealousy Self Quiz Spanish

 

Parents:

Education on attachment and effects of violence on kids

101 Ways to Praise A Child

Bancroft, L. When Dad Hurts Mom: Helping Your Children Heal the Wounds of Witnessing Abuse. Berkeley Publishing Group, 2004.

 

Professionals:

Other Helpful Websites

Safety Checklist: General safety questions to ask kids

Safety Planning for Battered Women: Considerations Regarding Children

Development and Behavior Chart: Normal vs. Exposed to Domestic Violence

Abuse of Children Wheel

Nurturing Chilren Wheel

 

Books:

Bancroft, L. and Silverman, J. The Batterer As Parent. Sage Publications, 2002.

Brohl K. Working with Traumatized Children, A Handbook for Healing. CWLA Press, 1996.

Levy, B. Dating Violence: Young Women in Danger. Seal Press, 1991.

Lieberman, A. and Van Horn, P. Don't Hit My Mommy: A Manual For Child-parent Psychotherapy With Young Witnesses Of Family Violence. 2004

 

Links to Community Resources:

www.informationandreferral.org

http://www.dhs.utah.gov

http://www.utcourts.com/

National Youth Crisis Hotline – A referral hotline for youth in crisis

800-HIT-HOME   (800-448-4663)

 


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